You'll notice I have Friends in quotations up there... that's because I'm not talking about real friends, I'm talking about those people who pretend to be your friends, but when it comes to actually being there for you, they are either never there or they are there, sort of, but complain about it.
You've just really got to love these kinds of people. I especially love the part where when it comes to them expecting you to "be there" for them, regardless of how they have acted in the past, they actually expect you to be there for them. These so-called friends will actually get mad at you if you aren't at their disposal any and every time they need you.
My question is this: Do they actually feel that their behaviour is acceptable?? Do they really think they have a right to be this way? Do they honestly not feel that what they are doing is wrong? Or are they just such A-holes n B's that they just don't give a crap? Any comments are welcome, let me know what you think on the subject....
The so-called friends who just simply are never there, never speak to you.... I don't mind them so much. It's a shame, but at least they aren't expecting anything from you in return for their "non-friendship". No, it's the ones who insist they are your friends and whine to the world because you don't get up every morning and greet them and ask what you can do for them today - although they aren't doing that to you either. The ones who whine to the world because you didn't send them a Facebook gift or reply to a Facebook post - like Facebook is the world or something. The ones who will do something for you "in the name of *I'm such a wonderful friend*", but then complain constantly about it. If you really were such a great friend, you would do stuff for your friends because you want to, not because you have to. You would do stuff for your friends unselflessly and would not need recognition for doing it.
So, yeah, I'm feeling that there aren't really that many "real friends" left in the world. That's a real shame....
Any comments? Any "crappy so-called friend" stories? Feel free to leave a comment and share them...
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I work 32-40 hours a week from 4pm-1am, so I don't have a lot of free time to spend online, but I will try to blog as much as possible. If you have any post suggestions, let me know!
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I love this!! I know about this ALLL to well!! Great topic!
I looked at that comment and tried to remember when I posted it... Then I realized it said jessica. First, I would capitalized the J just because of my college English classes (it's become a habbit to correct mine and others' writing...except on messenger). Second, I would put Jesy, not Jessica. Then I realized that wasn't me. lol. It is a great topic, though. And I do know about this all too well. And I do love it. lol.
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